First impression, last impression

Take notes, ladies- we've spoken to the experts and arrived at 10 scientifically proven techniques that will turn him to mush!

Rashi Wadhera Rashi Wadhera
नवंबर 03, 2010

A hot dress and pro flirting skills can make most guys show in interest in you. But if you want him to be head-over-heels, crazy-in-love with you, you need more serious ammo.

That's where science comes in-wellresearched, tried-and-tested, proven ideas that always have the desired conclusion. Enter Leil Lowndes, author How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You, whose book features a host of strategies that promise to make anyone fall in love you. We've taken 10 of the best tips for you so landing the man of your dreams is as simple as reading a 4-page feature!

First impression, last impression
According to scientists, the very first time a guy sees you can be the moment he decides whether you'll be the mother of his children or just another face in the crowd. Liel's advice: since you could meet a great guy anywhere, dress for the kill every time you step out the door. According to Liel, "We get lazy about first impressions if we don't get noticed the first few times.

But the average sale is not made till the fifth sales call. So, give it more time." We realise that it may not be possible to have perfect hair and make-up every minute of every day, so simply resort to wearing lipstick as often as you can. In a recent study, researchers asked men to talk with six different women who sometimes wore make-up, sometimes didn't. The study revealed that the male opinion of each woman was very different when she wore lipstick. Chanel Rouge Allure, anyone?

Start working the eyes
Some people might be 'butt people', others might have a thing for legs, but, say experts, everybody is an 'eye person'. According to anthropologist Helen Fisher, unrelenting eye contact stimulates a highly emotional state similar to fear. When you look directly into someone's eyes, their body secretes chemicals like phenyl ethylamine, or PEA, that stimulates the feeling of being in love.

People gaze lingeringly at sights that please and immediately look away from things they dislike. Your eyes are your biggest giveaways, when you're bored, the first thing to look away are your eyes. Direct eye contact triggers a primitive part of the human brain, calling forth one of two basic emotions-approach or retreat. According to Liel, "When conversing with your potential love interest, exaggerate your eye contact. Push it up to 75 percent of the time or more if you want to get the PEA gushing through his veins."

 

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