7 sex cravings all guys have

  • He wants to mix things up
    Repetition can make once-hot sack sessions seem ho-hum. So be open to varying things in bed. Any change in speed, pressure, or position will make the act more interesting and pleasurable. Variety keeps him in a heightened state of arousal because he never knows what to expect.

    During foreplay, wrap your fist around his member, moving it up and down with long, smooth strokes. Then add your other hand, and gently twist both hands in opposing directions. When you get to intercourse, start off slowly in missionary. Next, rest your feet on his shoulders for deeper thrusting. Finally, roll over, and let him enter you from behind.

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  • He wants a 'wow, what was that?' experience
    To separate yourself from the pack, you'll need to pull a move so wild, he won't be able to stop thinking about it the next day. If you've mastered one particular technique that's really hot and different, the entire erotic experience will stand out in his mind. Now, you don't have to bust out a complicated trick best used by yoga instructors - just tweak an old standby, say, switching between oral sex and intercourse...with him blindfolded. You may also want to come up with your own signature mouth move.

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  • He wants you to be naughty
    Even if you're a bad girl at heart, you might hold back with your guy. Women are often afraid to get naughty in a relationship, because they don't want to shatter any 'good girlfriend' image he has or they don't want him to think they're weird. But men want to see that no-holds-barred side of you - they just don't want to offend you by asking for it. What dirty-girl tricks fit the bill? Pretty much anything that shows him how much you like sex and how much you want it with him, says Gardos. To let him know you're into him, grab his butt hard when he's climaxing or gently nip his shoulder. You may also want to do something unexpected, like initiating a new position or trying a passion prop.

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  • He wants to watch
    For men, what they see is almost as good as what they get, so make sure to give him an eyeful. Another way to turn him on with sight: Keep some clothes on. Sometimes men prefer when you leave a little to the imagination. Sexy lingerie can be as arousing - or more so - as being nude, because it builds anticipation. More great views: you in girl-on-top position or, if you're feeling brave, touching yourself in front of him.

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  • He wants you to drop hints
    When it comes to pleasing the women in their lives, every man wishes he had ESP (extrasexual perception). But the truth is, your libidinous longings can be baffling. That's why a guy loves it when you're able to guide him without barking out orders. So when giving erotic instruction, throw in some positive reinforcement. Tell him how good it feels when he does something right, or remind him of a technique that always gets you off. If he's not giving you enough foreplay, ask him to use his hand or mouth to warm you up, saying that you want to draw out the experience.

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  • He wants a girl who can turn herself on
    Women, as you know, need time to get revved up. Although your man may be more than willing to pull out all the stops to get you hot, he wouldn't mind if you gave yourself a running start. A number of women still believe that it's solely a man's job to arouse them. To have a really fulfilling sexual experience though, you have to put some effort into getting yourself into a sexual state of mind.

    To give your libido a boost, draw on the same sources of inspiration you use during solo self-pleasuring missions. Once his seduction scheme begins, close your eyes and fantasize about a hot encounter you had with your man...or even some other dude. It's totally okay to think about another sexual partner when you're trying to turn yourself on. You just might not want to tell your boyfriend about it.

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  • He wants sex for fun
    Unfortunately, real-life romps aren't as seamless as they are in the movies. Things don't always go smoothly during sex - some positions don't work, and odd noises happen. If you get hung up on a mishap, it will ruin the mood. But if you can both laugh, it becomes a light bonding moment. Frisky fun is about more than damage control though. Make a silly bet to be paid off in sexual favors or play a board game naked in bed and agree that the loser has to grant the winner one lusty request.

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  • While men might brag to their friends about the kick-ass sex they're having, they rarely get into specifics. And when it comes to actually divulging their secret desires to the women in their lives...well, they're even more tight-lipped.

    Though every dude has different needs, there are some universal sex moves and attitudes that most men want but don't know how to request. To learn about his carnal longings - and how to satisfy them - read on.

    There are certain things your man needs to be satisfied in the sack but just won't ask for. But we're sharing our findings with you...

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