30 kissing tips that never fail

Let the kiss have a tinge of affection. Instead of being brutally agressive, it is always a better option to be tender and loving.

 While eye contact is good up until this point, make sure to close your eyes while you are kissing her. There is nothing weirder to a woman than a guy who kisses with his eyes wide open.

Don't go from talking across a table to planting your lips on her face; touch her. Put your hands on her hips or around her waist and gently pull her toward you. Then, run your fingers through her hair, and cup her beautiful face in your hands.

This moment should feel like it is moving in slow motion. There is nothing that will turn a woman off faster than a guy who moves too quickly, especially if this is the very first time you are even going to kiss her.

Never ask a woman for her permission to kiss her. Despite what you might think, women, in general, like it when their man takes charge, especially during a passionate moment. Asking for her permission will make you seem timid and unsure; not sweet and sensitive. So, be a man and kiss her.

You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss her. So, you should take the opportunity to do so.

"Slide your mouth to his cheek and then his ear, then back to his mouth,"Also try different things with your hands, like rubbing his back, so it becomes a full-body experienc

The shared adrenaline rush that comes from an unexpected kiss can make a couple feel more bonded. Why not try it?

Touch your partner's love nub like you’re punching your PIN into an ATM and you'll get the wrong sort of withdrawal. Instead, tantalise her with kisses that initially avoid the breasts and genitals. Drive her wild with your special kissing sequence-feathery kisses on the neck, moving to the shoulder, then to the collar-bone area, following to small of the back, inner thigh and finally, hitting the mound between her legs.

Most men think cunnilingus is just foreplay. But you’re on the wrong track: most women think of dining at the Y as the best bit of the main course. If you dive down directly into the delta, with the attitude that munching out for a few minutes is just a way to prime for the pump, she’ll sense it and lose interest

Some guys think a kiss simply involves moving their tongue in and out of my mouth. That's just annoying. Instead, try different motions and amounts of pressure.

 A guy should move around when making out, not sit still and peck. Explore. Slide your lips over her body and keep your hands moving.

A little tongue action is good, but not when you feel like you're mouth-wrestling. Men are notorious for tonsil spelunking.

 Kiss lightly around her mouth, on her cheeks, or on her neck—that's a very sensual thing to do. Then when you reach her mouth, kiss her very softly on the lips—no insert-tongue-here kisses.

When things go awry in a relationship, kissing can be a potent weapon in your armoury.

 Consider some breath freshener or a lozenge and take the initiative.

To make sure your partner harnesses the same positive effects from a makeout session as you do, jack up the romance. The setting of a kiss can affect how women perceive it.

The kiss won't just help you score at night, but it can even help you win over your clients at business meetings. A study at Stranmillis University College in Belfast found that people who turned their heads to the right when kissing were more emotionally engaging than leftleaners. "By turning to the right, you reveal your left cheek which is controlled by the emotive right cerebral hemisphere," says researcher Dr Julian Greenwood

Kiss honestly. You don't have to be someone else while kissing.

Brush your lips between her throat and chin. The skin is thinner where the body flexes, so the nerves and blood vessels are closer to the surface-that's why it's also a perfume point. You'll engage sensory receptors and trigger an emotional response.

"A woman's upper lip is served by different nerve branches to her lower lip," says Siski Green, author of How to Blow Her Mind In Bed. "Spend time licking, kissing or gently nibbling her upper lip, then move down below-no, not that far down-to ensure every nerve ending gets stimulated to the max."

Kissing is your entrance exam for the rest of your partner's body. For maximum effect, plant a small kiss on each lip before placing soft, dry, relaxed kisses on the entire mouth.

 Keep her face lightly cupped and look into her eyes. Breathe out and shake your head as though you found the kiss unbelievable.

Don't slobber all over her like a Great Dane. "Brush your lips over hers until she parts them and offers you her tongue.

According to a recent study, women rated the taste of a partner's mouth as more important than men. Top turn off? Halitosis. Fix bad breath using salt and a glass of water. Dentists recommend gargling two teaspoons of salt dissolved in water to eliminate halitosis-causing bacteria.

Channel the Sherlock Holmes in you and detect when she wants you to move in. Wait for her lips to appear fuller. A slight blushing and widening of her lips shows sexual interest. She'll also start to size up your lips for a way to make a good mouth-match. So you'll see a slight head tilt.

Men should ensure that before heading into a kissing scenario, ensure your facial hair is soft, by using a small amount of hair conditioner on any stubble, and then applying facial moisturiser. Or plaster your lips with Vaseline, then gently wipe it off.

Always kiss back. Guys are sensitive about physical rejection, and turning your head away when he lunges because you feel crabby or fear you have morning breath can make him hesitate next time.

Quit stressing over who goes first. When you're enjoying the activity, you forget who really started it. Plus, be the one to launch a few lusty mouth-to-mouth sessions and the physical charge will likely thrill him so much, he'll soon follow suit on his own.

The first and the most basic rule of any kiss is-knowing the right moment. Kiss should not be so sudden that it becomes shocking!