When it comes to achieving a great orgasm, denial is the best policy

Orgasm denial can give you the orgasm of your dreams. Photo: Shutterstock/IndiaPicture

Monotony can be drab and boring and a little experimentation can add the much-needed zing in our lives. This stands true even for our sex lives. When we say experimentation in bed, we don't just mean trying new positions, but we're also referring to some secret tricks and techniques that can spice things up between the sheets and make intimacy with your partner a better experience.

With the sole intention of wanting you to enjoy the big-O even better than before, here's the one secret to achieving an unforgettable, intense one: Orgasm denial.

Don't let the name discourage you. The denial part of this BDSM technique is actually what's going to lead you to your much-awaited destination.

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Again, don't get scared by the BDSM part if you prefer things to be slow, soft, and romantic in bed. This technique has got nothing to do with roughness of the BDSM. All it involves is one partner taking control and not letting the other partner climax for a long time. It can also be done by arousing your partner fully and then just stopping before they are about to achieve an orgasm multiple times before they finally let them climax.

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Let's break it down for you further: Imagine heating the milk on low flame and turning down the flame every time the milk is about to come to a boil. The one time that you don't turn the flame down, the milk will not just boil, it'll spill out of the container onto the stove and on your kitchen's slab.

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This is the exact principle orgasm denial works on. You tease and tease, and deny orgasms to your partner causing hell lot of a buildup. Finally, when you allow them to climax, the pent-up gets a release causing a great orgasm.

Now that you know the secret, you can try it tonight. What say?