You've got to stop making these mistakes if you want to achieve the big O in bed

Don't blame your biology if you can't orgasm. Photo: Shutterstock/ IndiaPicture

Imagine this: you are all hot and heavy in the bedroom and your partner is doing the best he can so that you can have an orgasm, but alas! It seems almost impossible to achieve the big O despite all your efforts. Now, before you start blaming your biology for everything that's going wrong, take a moment and think. What if there are certain mistakes you are making in bed without realizing it? Yup, it's a possibility.

If you are guilty of making any of these mistakes then you know where you are going wrong:

You Are Trying Too Many Sex Positions

Trying a plethora of sex positions may feel exciting, but it's definitely not going to help your case. No matter what you see on television or online pornography, hopping around in bed while making love is not the best idea. You see, it's imperative that there is constant stimulation in one particular position without movement dividing your attention.

Ladies, pick a sex position that you find most enjoyable and just let go. Make sure your bae pays special attention to all your pleasure points.

You Are Not Making Enough Noise

Wait…what?Yup, you heard this one right. If you are making love on mute then you better pump up the volume a little. Believe it or not, it really helps.

According to a report published in Women's Day magazine, "Being vocal during sex has been proven to work wonders. If you are being quiet, you are lowering your chances of getting off. You can heighten the sensory experience of sex by saying things out loud. It will allow you to orgasm harder, longer, and more often."

There Is Not Enough Lubrication

Orgasm is a result of pleasurable sex and you only get to enjoy it if you are not moaning and writing in pain. While some women don't have a tough time thanks to their vaginas' natural lubricant, some have to endure painful sex due to extreme vaginal dryness. So, if you think you are not lubricated enough to enjoy sex then let it be. You've got to get in the mood to actually enjoy it. Also, if natural lubrication is a problem then take help of artificial lubes. They are easily available in the market and can help make sex fun for you.

Orgasm is a result of pleasurable sex and you only get to enjoy it if you are not moaning and writing in pain. Photo: Shutterstock/ IndiaPicture

Worrying What You Look Like

Hmmm…you are not the only woman on Earth who worries about how she looks while having sex. But ladies, the more conscious you are, lesser are your chances of enjoying sex. And needless to say, if you don't find pleasure in the activity, you can kiss your chances of having an amazing orgasm goodbye.

You've got to be more confident in bed. Just let your senses soak in the pleasure without worrying about your love handles, your muffin top, and your flabby arms. To be honest, your guy really doesn't care what you look like while having sex. So, you just need to stop fretting over it and have fun.

You Don't Pee Before Sex

"It will probably take less than two minutes to drain your bladder, and not only will it help ensure that you won't be uncomfortable while you mess around--peeing before sex can also help you achieve orgasm," states a report published in the Bustle.

Ladies, it's almost impossible to have an orgasm when your bladder is full and all you can think of is ways to stop yourself from peeing. Instead, just hit the toilet before you get between the sheets. It will make it easier for you to climax.

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