This is what committed men go through at their bachelor's party

Do you think stag parties are fun? Think again

Sarwat Fatima Sarwat Fatima
नवंबर 07, 2016
Basically the tales of men going wild on their last bachelor night is nothing but a well-woven web of lies. Photo courtesy: Facebook/ Thehangover

Ladies, if you are having sleepless nights over your hubby-to-be's impending bachelor party, you should relax! Contrary to the popular belief, men actually don't enjoy the debauchery that they are accused of.

Don't believe us? Well, science says so. According to a study carried out by Daniel Briggs from Madrid University and Anthony Ellis of Salford University, men succumb to peer pressure to celebrate one final night of 'freedom', despite the fact that the hedonistic experiences leave them feeling scared and degraded.

"One groom-to-be, who said he had no desire to see half-naked dancing women, let alone pay them in a lap dancing club that his best man insisted they go to. He went along with the group. He spent a dismal evening, declining offers from various women for private dances, but did not reveal his desire to leave to the best man or the rest of the group", reports the study, highlighting one particular incident.

Basically the tales of men going wild on their last bachelor night is nothing but a well-woven web of lies. It's actually the peer pressure that drives groom-to-be into the midst of all the madness. It's the extreme shaming, humiliation, and deviance that adds to the horrid experience at a stag party. Well, if this is how it goes down, then it sure ain't no fun.

Honestly, the tales of debauchery that have been fed to you, courtesy Hollywood/Bollywood movies, are pure bullshit. So, don't let the mere idea of a bachelor party send shivers down your spine. In all probability, your man has no intention of going crazy, he is just pretending! And the study agrees. "Men on stag dos are performing a role rather than taking any real pleasure in their extreme antics. These men are merely reproducing exaggerated forms of behaviour that are expected of them and that they expect of themselves in a pocket of available time to celebrate", it says.

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