Are you dating a psychopath? Here's how you can tell

People don't have 'psychopath' branded on their forehead, though a few tell-tale sgns can help you figure out whether your partner has psychopathic tendencies. 

Sarwat Fatima Sarwat Fatima
अक्टूबर 28, 2016
Get out of it while you still can because it's not going to go down pretty. Photo: Shutterstock/ IndiaPicture

Love is complicated and trust us when we tell you that no one has really figured it out, yet. But, while love demands a lot of sacrifice and patience, there are certain things that you should not be putting up with. And violence tops that list. Being short-temepered is one thing; but if you're fella often resorts to violence with you--get out as fast as you can. Not only is an abusive relationship one of the the worst things that can happen to you, but chances are you are dating a psychopath. 

Don't believe us? Well, here's what a study conducted by University of British Columbia Okanagan says: "People with higher levels of psychopathic tendencies are more likely to assault their romantic partners. They are also more likely to drink alcohol". That did send shivers down your spine, didn't it?

Between 15% and 76% of women are targeted for physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime. Most of this violence takes place within intimate relationships, with many women, ranging from 9% to 70%, reporting their husbands or partners as the perpetrators, states the available country data, published on the UN Women website.

"Higher level of psychopathic personality is an important predictor of how likely someone is to engage in intimate partner violence", explains the Canadian research. Now, obviously your partner does not come with the letters 'psychopath' branded on his forehead. But if you feel something not right, it probably isn't.

 

So, if this piece makes you wonder whether you are dating one yourself, here are a few signs that you should watch out for.

1.    He plays Jekyll and Hyde with you. Wondering what that means? Well, it's basically two personalities in one body. If his fluctuating mood swings leave you confused, then maybe you should keep your eyes open.

2.    This is a classic trait. Psychopaths are master manipulators and they have a way of turning everything back to you. You might be arguing with him over his callous ways, and he puts at blame back at you for being too sensitive.

3.    Does your boyfriend love playing victim all the time? Well, chances are that it's you and not him, who is being bullied and traumatized in the relationship.

4.    They are compulsive liars. If you find your partner blatantly lying to your face all the time, then it's time to confront your worst fears.

5.    Imagine this: you are 20 minutes late for a date. And when you do eventually show up, your partner is angry with you to the extent of physically harming you. If something like this has happened to you or you are scared of his aggressive bursts-get immediate help.

 

Also read: In love with a commitment phobe? Here is how you can build a lasting relationship with him

 

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