Is he in love with you? Here are 4 ways you can tell

Because actions speak louder than words.

Sarwat Fatima Sarwat Fatima
नवंबर 11, 2016
Maybe he is dropping hints, and you haven't noticed yet.. Photo: Shutterstock/ IndiaPicture

Imagine this: you have had a gruelling day at work and you want to go out for drinks with a guy, who you have been dating for quite some time now. He has other plans, but the moment you mention a possible date, he chucks everything else to meet you.

Ladies, if you have someone like that in your life, he's definitely a keeper. Now, in all probability, he has not said the three magic words, yet. So, his dedication confuses you all the more. Let us break it down for you: all men are not vocal. They find it extremely hard to voice feelings, and they let their actions do the talking.

Maybe he is dropping hints but you are too slow to notice. Don't worry, we are there to help. Don't give up on the possibility of a beautiful relationship by just waiting for him to make the first move. If he can't, you take charge--it's 2016 for God's sake. Here are a few signs that will solve the puzzle for you. In case, you are able to identify a couple-you know what to do.

He Hangs Onto Your Every Word and Remembers It
You are a lucky lady, indeed. Men usually have the tendency of paying very little attention to conversations, especially if it's full of details. So, if your guy listens to you patiently, every time you meet, then he is not just your regular buddy. You hold an important place in his life and he wants you to feel so. And there's more--it's not just his listening abilities that give him away. If he often quotes you while randomly talking about stuff, it shows that your words stay with him, even after you leave.

He Compliments You Even When You Are Not Wearing Make-up
People compliment you when you look pretty, right? But, what sets him apart is the fact that he finds you pretty, and makes it a point to tell you, even when you are not looking your best. Awww, ain't that sweet? It clearly shows that it is not just your face or your bod that he is attracted to. It's your personality, which is a good thing. After all, looks fade but substance stays.


He Pays Attention To What You Like Or Don't Like
While any other guy would not go out of his way to make you comfortable, the one who loves you will make sure you don't feel discomfort of any sort. For instance, he will not forget to leave the toilet seat down, because he knows that it pisses you off. Similarly, he will remember that you like extra cheese in your pizza or no sugar in your coffee. He will have your little habits memorized by heart.

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He Does Not Try To Change You
This is definitely the most important sign of all. The one who truly loves you will not try to pull your strings. He accepts you for what you are. Such a guy will not ask you to give up travelling, just because he is not much of a tourist himself. Instead, he will say YES to your cleverly customized travel plan and tag along. He will let you do your stuff and pitch in, just to make you happy.

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